nodejs: Upgrade to 16.11.1

* This is new LTS release
* Add patch to fix build on mips/mips64
* Add patch to build with new c-ares 2.17+
* Enhance native binaries patch to include additional native torque use
* Drop mips-warnings.patch and python 3.10 support patch which is
  already available in 16.x
* Refresh rest of patches against 16.x base

Signed-off-by: Khem Raj <raj.khem@gmail.com>

meta-oe/recipes-devtools/nodejs/nodejs/libatomic.patch

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ Signed-off-by: Khem Raj <raj.khem@gmail.com>
 
 --- a/tools/v8_gypfiles/v8.gyp
 +++ b/tools/v8_gypfiles/v8.gyp
-@@ -1336,6 +1336,7 @@
+@@ -1436,6 +1436,7 @@
      {
        'target_name': 'mksnapshot',
        'type': 'executable',